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		<title>My Therapist Said I Should &#8211; Camille</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Apr 2013 18:26:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>My Therapist Said I Should &#8211; Jennifer</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Apr 2013 22:31:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jennifer&#8217;s answer to the question I posed at The Market in Larimer Square was short and sweet. I asked what her therapist told her she should do. Jennifer said forgive everyone, everything. And wait until you hear what Jennifer had to learn to forgive!]]></description>
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<p>Jennifer&#8217;s answer to the question I posed at The Market in Larimer Square was short and sweet. I asked what her therapist told her she should do. Jennifer said forgive everyone, everything. And wait until you hear what Jennifer had to learn to forgive!</p>
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		<title>My Therapist Said I Should &#8211; Brendan</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Apr 2013 17:38:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From a series of conversations recorded and produced at The Market in Larimer Square, downtown Denver, I asked Brendan what his therapist said he ought to do. Brendan replied that he&#8217;s been on and off marijuana for several months. We talk about the triggers that make him want to smoke weed.]]></description>
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<p>From a series of conversations recorded and produced at The Market in Larimer Square, downtown Denver, I asked Brendan what his therapist said he ought to do. Brendan replied that he&#8217;s been on and off marijuana for several months. We talk about the triggers that make him want to smoke weed.</p>
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		<title>My Therapist Said I Should &#8211; Stacey</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Apr 2013 17:11:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stacey says her therapist said she should not worry if the kids&#8217; rooms were messy. This was years ago but Stacey&#8217;s found that advice helpful throughout her life. From a series of conversations I hosted and produced on different themes, recorded at Denver&#8217;s Kaladi Coffee.]]></description>
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<p>Stacey says her therapist said she should not worry if the kids&#8217; rooms were messy. This was years ago but Stacey&#8217;s found that advice helpful throughout her life. From a series of conversations I hosted and produced on different themes, recorded at Denver&#8217;s Kaladi Coffee.</p>
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		<title>My Therapist Said I Should &#8211; Sarah</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Apr 2013 16:50:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From a series of interviews I hosted and produced at Kaladi Coffee in Denver, here is Sarah&#8217;s story. I&#8217;d asked her to tell me what her therapist told her she should do. The answer: not be afraid to express her needs.]]></description>
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<p>From a series of interviews I hosted and produced at Kaladi Coffee in Denver, here is Sarah&#8217;s story. I&#8217;d asked her to tell me what her therapist told her she should do. The answer: not be afraid to express her needs.</p>
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		<title>My Therapist Said I Should &#8211; Matt</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Apr 2013 15:42:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I asked Matt at St. Mark&#8217;s Coffee in Denver what his therapist(s) told him he should do. Matt can&#8217;t remember, in part because he was too busy talking about music and movies instead of remembering the therapeutic advice he received. Here&#8217;s Matt&#8217;s story.]]></description>
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<p>I asked Matt at St. Mark&#8217;s Coffee in Denver what his therapist(s) told him he should do. Matt can&#8217;t remember, in part because he was too busy talking about music and movies instead of remembering the therapeutic advice he received. Here&#8217;s Matt&#8217;s story.</p>
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		<title>My Therapist Said I Should &#8211; Kim</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Apr 2013 15:08:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From a series of conversations on different themes that I hosted and produced at Denver-area coffeehouses, here is Kim&#8217;s story. She said her therapist told her in a couples counseling session that she should trust her instincts and separate from her husband. This, even though the therapist was a Christian counselor and he knew that step would likely lead to divorce.]]></description>
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<p>From a series of conversations on different themes that I hosted and produced at Denver-area coffeehouses, here is Kim&#8217;s story. She said her therapist told her in a couples counseling session that she should trust her instincts and separate from her husband. This, even though the therapist was a Christian counselor and he knew that step would likely lead to divorce.</p>
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		<title>My Therapist Said I Should &#8211; Tony</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 23:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From a series of conversations I hosted and produced in Denver-area coffeehouses, here is Tony&#8217;s story. His therapist said he should go to rehab for drug and alcohol addiction. It worked for a little while.]]></description>
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<p>From a series of conversations I hosted and produced in Denver-area coffeehouses, here is Tony&#8217;s story. His therapist said he should go to rehab for drug and alcohol addiction. It worked for a little while.</p>
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		<title>My Therapist Said I Should &#8211; Jackie</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 23:08:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jackie sat down with me at St. Mark&#8217;s Coffee in Denver to tell me that she received &#8220;bad advice&#8221; from a therapist years ago. The therapist said Jackie&#8217;s plan to go to medical school wouldn&#8217;t turn out well. Here why in this ongoing series of conversations on different themes.]]></description>
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<p>Jackie sat down with me at St. Mark&#8217;s Coffee in Denver to tell me that she received &#8220;bad advice&#8221; from a therapist years ago. The therapist said Jackie&#8217;s plan to go to medical school wouldn&#8217;t turn out well. Here why in this ongoing series of conversations on different themes.</p>
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		<title>My Therapist Said I Should &#8211; Dmitria</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Apr 2013 20:15:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From a series of conversations on different themes, here is Dmitria answering my question: what has your therapist said you should do. She has lots of anxiety and was told to meditate, for a REALLY long time. That didn&#8217;t work out so well&#8230;.]]></description>
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<p>From a series of conversations on different themes, here is Dmitria answering my question: what has your therapist said you should do. She has lots of anxiety and was told to meditate, for a REALLY long time. That didn&#8217;t work out so well&#8230;.</p>
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