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		<title>I Don&#8217;t Want To Die Regretting &#8211; Savanna</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Mar 2013 16:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From a series of conversations I hosted and produced at Kaladi Coffee in Denver, here is Savanna. She says she doesn&#8217;t want to die regretting a decision she made in middle school: refusing to date a boy because he wasn&#8217;t as religiously fundamentalist as she was.]]></description>
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<p>From a series of conversations I hosted and produced at Kaladi Coffee in Denver, here is Savanna. She says she doesn&#8217;t want to die regretting a decision she made in middle school: refusing to date a boy because he wasn&#8217;t as religiously fundamentalist as she was.</p>
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		<title>The Moment I First Knew I Was In Love &#8211; Rebecca</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 14:05:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From a series of coffeehouse conversations in Denver, this one recorded at The Market in Larimer Square. I asked Rebecca what was the moment she first knew she was in love. She was sitting on her butt in snow, calling a friend.]]></description>
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<p>From a series of coffeehouse conversations in Denver, this one recorded at The Market in Larimer Square. I asked Rebecca what was the moment she first knew she was in love. She was sitting on her butt in snow, calling a friend.</p>
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		<title>My Last Relationship Ended &#8211; Terry</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 04:47:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From a series of interviews on a theme of &#8220;My Last Relationship Ended Because,&#8221; Terry tells me about how much work his last relationship took and the toll a long-distance move had on both of them. Recorded at St. Mark&#8217;s Coffeehouse in Denver, CO.]]></description>
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<p>From a series of interviews on a theme of &#8220;My Last Relationship Ended Because,&#8221; Terry tells me about how much work his last relationship took and the toll a long-distance move had on both of them. Recorded at St. Mark&#8217;s Coffeehouse in Denver, CO.</p>
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		<title>My Last Relationship Ended &#8211; Meg</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 04:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Meg didn&#8217;t mean to arrive at her breakup conversation so amped up on adrenaline, but she did. What happened next involved hurling an item at the ex and refusing to talk about emotions. From my series of conversations on different themes at Denver-area coffeehouses.]]></description>
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<p>Meg didn&#8217;t mean to arrive at her breakup conversation so amped up on adrenaline, but she did. What happened next involved hurling an item at the ex and refusing to talk about emotions. From my series of conversations on different themes at Denver-area coffeehouses.</p>
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		<title>My Last Relationship Ended &#8211; Allison</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 04:42:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Allison&#8217;s last relationship ended because he got involved with her best friend, but it was the best friend, not the ex, that we spent the most time discussing at St. Mark&#8217;s Coffeehouse in Denver.]]></description>
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<p>Allison&#8217;s last relationship ended because he got involved with her best friend, but it was the best friend, not the ex, that we spent the most time discussing at St. Mark&#8217;s Coffeehouse in Denver.</p>
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		<title>My Last Relationship Ended &#8211; Jenny</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 04:32:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jenny was in a relationship for four years and they were engaged but the reason the relationship ended was because he couldn&#8217;t stop being attracted to his exes. From the series at St. Mark&#8217;s Coffeehouse in Denver&#8230;.]]></description>
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<p>Jenny was in a relationship for four years and they were engaged but the reason the relationship ended was because he couldn&#8217;t stop being attracted to his exes. From the series at St. Mark&#8217;s Coffeehouse in Denver&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>My Last Relationship Ended &#8211; Lars</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 04:29:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From my series of conversations on different themes, this one on how relationships end was recorded at St. Mark&#8217;s Coffeehouse in Denver: Lars says if one person wants to have a &#8220;real&#8221; relationship but the other person wants an escape, things won&#8217;t work out.]]></description>
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<p>From my series of conversations on different themes, this one on how relationships end was recorded at St. Mark&#8217;s Coffeehouse in Denver: Lars says if one person wants to have a &#8220;real&#8221; relationship but the other person wants an escape, things won&#8217;t work out.</p>
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		<title>My Last Relationship Ended &#8211; Anthony</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 04:26:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From my series of conversations on different themes, this one recorded at Kaladi Coffee in Denver: Anthony says he doesn&#8217;t know why his last relationship ended, but he really does once I start asking more questions.]]></description>
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<p>From my series of conversations on different themes, this one recorded at Kaladi Coffee in Denver: Anthony says he doesn&#8217;t know why his last relationship ended, but he really does once I start asking more questions.</p>
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		<title>My Last Relationship Ended &#8211; Irina</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 04:24:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Irina&#8217;s last relationship didn&#8217;t go smoothly because they had different goals, but what broke them up was something much more serious. From my conversation series in Denver-area coffeehouses.]]></description>
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<p>Irina&#8217;s last relationship didn&#8217;t go smoothly because they had different goals, but what broke them up was something much more serious. From my conversation series in Denver-area coffeehouses.</p>
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		<title>My Last Relationship Ended &#8211; Erin</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Mar 2013 04:21:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Erin started dating a friend but what was once funny when they weren&#8217;t dating became really annoying when they started going out. From my series of conversations on different themes in Denver-area coffeehouses.]]></description>
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<p>Erin started dating a friend but what was once funny when they weren&#8217;t dating became really annoying when they started going out. From my series of conversations on different themes in Denver-area coffeehouses.</p>
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